Wedding speeches are a traditional part of the events involved in creating a new family. They express hope, happiness and best wishes for the success of the endeavor. Thus it is important to carefully consider one's words and audience that will be addressed if one is obliged to speak at such an occasion. After all one would certainly not wish ill or embarrassment on the couple in question on a day that is very important to them.
The art of a fantastic wedding speech is just being yourself. Get your hands on the guide that I used when I got married. It had tons of examples and tips. I basically plugged my own words into the template and was done in about 10 minutes. I practiced the speech in front of my dog first. Then I recorded another rehearsal on my computer with the web cam. This high tech stuff is cool! The dog never bit me and the camera did not break. I practiced it only twice and that was it.
Best man speeches consist of a more formal mode of address. It is also composed of more words than what most others are required to utter. Of those words that are most often spoken by the best man are an invitation to join in toasting the bride and groom.
When you finally figure out what you want to say in your speech, be certain that you practice saying it over and over again. Decide upon how you will give the speech to your bride and guests.If you need to jot down a few notes on a note card, then do it. However, never try to do your groom wedding speech from memorization.Everyone in the room will know that it has been memorized and feel embarrassed for you if you miss a line. Just speak in a conversational tone and say what you want to say.